I listen to people counsel victims of rape. And the one thing the counselors want to make clear above all else is that the victims have no reason to be ashamed. They have no reason to be ashamed because it was not their fault; they did not do anything to bring that tragedy upon themselvesContinue reading “Who Deserves Shame?”
Be very careful when you help an addict or receive help from an addict. For some people giving or receiving help is a means to victimize others. My peers and I were your garden-variety narcissists, sociopaths, egomaniacs, the addicted– we powerfully resented even the speculation that someone might have helped us. Interdependence is anathema toContinue reading “Hooker Life Hack 11/27/18”
I have found common ground with a famous cannibalistic serial killer. Me and Jeffrey Dahmer… Who would have thought?
No one wants to pay for bygone fun. Always get the money upfront so clients associate giving you money with pleasurable anticipation.
There are many stories within a lifetime. One of these stories is a “good news, bad news” story. The good news is, you can get used to anything. But you know what the bad news is? You can get used to anything.
I went from Harvard graduate, Magna cum Laude (with high honors) to being homeless and turning to sex work to support myself and my drug habit, and being out there as a survivor was shameful and surprisingly thrilling.
Plans for success morph into tales of days gone by
Hooker Hack #4: The importance of Appearance
Hooker Hack #3: Joy is fragile, unlike grief
If we use the word “normal” to mean commonly occurring, then I must say it is normal for Kanye West to want all 4 Kardashian sisters, and probably at the same time. I mean no offense, simply giving my experience based opinion.