Choking during sex: fun, for some, but I’m not the one.


I know some people enjoy being choked during sex. Why? It’s said oxygen deprivation during orgasm heightens sensation. Some allow partners to close their airways by choking them using hands, forearms, etc….Any object that can penetrate the neck with enough pressure to close the trachea and not leave a mark will do. No one wants tell tale bruises the world can see. Possibly, people might draw the correct conclusion and think the choking was not only voluntary, but desired. People would likely look askance at the practice. I am not a convert but I don’t judge others for doing what I would avoid at all costs.

I am not interested in exploring this practice. I really like breathing. As a kid I once almost drowned and the experience left me a staunch fan of taking every breath. What you for is up to you, and consenting adults should have as much freedom as possible. No one had ever asked me, in words, but twice clients out both hands firmly around my neck without squeezing. In those vulnerable moments I was as optimistic as possible. To think the worst only invited terror. I assumed was being propositioned not threatened. To politely decline, I smoothly slipped my fingers between the hands and my neck. My vements were slow and almost casual while still being decisive. No need to upset anyone. Immediately, on both occasions, they released me. There were no further attempts to encircle my neck and the incident was not discussed. When it comes to oxygen deprivation you really have to be on the same page as your partner!


Published by X-Streetwalker Turned Sex Talker

Caroleena used to be a drug addicted hooker on streets of downtown Honolulu in the early years of the 21st century. She was not the only learned streetwalker among the sex worker addicts. This group would have been a liberal college admissions officer's dream of diversity seeing as how they represented such a wide range of ages, races, family types, locations of origin, education levels, and gender identities. The two constants were trauma and dependency. Everyone out there had experienced life altering trauma which spurred them to seek refuge in drugs. Addiction was the unexpected phenomenon that kept them stuck in the dope. This downtown area was different from other drug saturated areas of America in one important way. The U.S. is the most violent country in the world, but in this corner of the nation there were no street gangs, no gun violence. You wouldn't get shot but you were probably going to be beaten up and robbed at some point. Interpersonal violence between intimate partners, friends, and family members was viewed as a natural part of being close to people. "Domestics" was something an individual brought upon herself or himself by causing problems in an interpersonal relationship. Caroleena, the perennial pariah even among society's rejects, had no intimate associates who might harm her. Prostitution was not as risky on Oahu as it was most everywhere else because the island was just too small. Everyone was somehow connected to everyone else with only something like two degrees of separation. You commit a crime, someone will know who you are and someone else will know how to find you. Hookers rarely got killed. Honolulu's relative safety allowed Caroleena over 10 years of street longevity until the scene ended when authorities started arresting men for allegedly soliciting undercover police for sex and posting their pictures on the evening news. tells Caroleena's adventures during her decade of addiction and its consequences--homelessness, prostitution, drug dealing, incarceration, family destruction, the list goes on. Every story relates events Caroleena experienced, witnessed, or imagined. The tale of this outcast is skillfully and paradoxically told in the language of the elite. The wording of the posts is itself a testimony to the wide grip that addiction has on all levels of society, even impacting the privileged who were previously thought to be immune to the troubles of the lower class. During these days of opiate addiction maybe she can answer some questions and present applicable solutions. If not, you are still in for a hell of a good read.

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