Hooker Life Hack #12: Don’t show people he is blatantly cheating bc public opinion matters

People like to say “I don’t care what anyone thinks if me!” Personally, I find it fascinating to learn what other people think of me. I think my interest stems from my inner narcissist. I can relate to the old joke that goes “Enough about me, tell me, what do you think about me!”

However, leaving aside the issue of my self centeredness, we all must pay attention to our public image at certain times and not because we are stuck on ourselves. And those times are when other people’s opinions impact our well being because we lack power in a certain area. For example, if I rent my home instead of own, I need management to think well of me so they renew my lease. I need my neighbors to regard me as someone who does not interfere with their peaceable enjoyment of their units so no one complains to management. I need good online reviews to grow my business. There is one area of public opinion I was in the dark about until a neighbor enlightened me–just now, Januart19, 2019, 10:30 p m. Hawaii time. During a lovely impromptu conversation with my neighbor Betty when she returned my runaway cat to me, Betty said:

I told Rick not to bring other girls around. We are not together, now. Maybe I wanted that in the beginning but it’s not like that anymore. He is just a roommate. I’m helping him out because sometimes you need a smack and sometimes you need a hand up. But there are still people who think we are together. If those neighbors see him bringing girls back home they’ll think he totally disrespects me. Next thing, they’ll be disrespecting me, gossiping about me, stealing from me. That’s why I asked him to have that much consideration.”the lesson: We teach people how to treat us by what we allow from them. Observers are also learning how to treat us from what they see or what they think they see. As much as I would like to be self will run riot, I live in a society. The society has rules. People need to know that human rules about respect apply to me. If not, they will be disrespectful.

You might have been long aware of the potential repercussions of baseless conclusions, and how to avoid said repercussions. But for me, it was brand new knowledge. My personal business is not necessarily my own, and private matters are judged by outsiders who haven’t a clue. I need to do my best to look proper or else pay the consequences. Who knew? Not me! But that’s all different now. I want you to know because i have much love and appreciation for people who are willing to read this many of my words.

IN A NUTSHELL:

“Never let people think some other b***h is s*****g his d**k in your home, right in front of you.” (Unless they think you requested this show, but the topic of threesomes is for an upcoming post. Lol.)

Men aren't so much accepting of lesbianism as they are in favor of women putting on a show for them. In my opinion.
Coming Soon: Why threesomes devolve into two two-somes.
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