At Times the Female Half of a Couple Encourages Threesomes


IT SURPRISES SOME

Men are usually agreeable when their female partners suggest bringing another woman into the next. They are surprised but they readily agree. A guy won’t ask for the reason just in case the woman changes her mind if she thinks is too long and hard about it. To men, it ain’t broke, so no way in hell do they want to fix it by asking unnecessary questions.. But the female motivation interests me. From what I have seen most women in a committed relationship do not want to share their man with anyone. I think I have come up with the reason why.

WOMEN REALLY WANT TO KEEP THE GUY

That’s right, she wants to keep him by introducing other women. The request for a threesome is really an attempt to protect the relationship from the man’s tendency to look elsewhere before the standard wandering eye starts to travel in the first place. The desire for other women becomes something they share. When he thinks is of other women he automatically thinks about including his wife. He associates his wife with the desire for different action. He need not hide his desire from his wife, thus walling her off from an intimate part of himself.

RULES APPLY

The wife always has a set of rules that accompanies The Proposal. She wants to be a part of choosing the woman. She wants to be involved in every sexual interaction that includes the woman. And she does not want the husband and the other woman to see each other without her being present, not even casually. And most importantly, she definitely sees the woman as a temporary participant, and not a part of their life as a couple. She has a hand, or any other body part, in every meaningless fling. Moreover, she makes herself more attractive than other women with whom he might want to set up permanent shop. Most women are not willing to share. But she is! Where can he find someone as great as this? The answer is: nowhere. He need not go anywhere else. She is safe.

THE PROBLEM

Men always want to keep secrets from their wives. Men never want to give all of themselves to their partner. They always want to have a part of their lives that is just for them. The desire for different women, on a casual basis is as much about withholding himself from his wife as it is about sex. Whatever rules are laid down by the wife, those rules will be broken. Where are the rules, and then there are the genuine true life rules. The genuine rule is: men always want to do something wives do not want them to do. This will surprise a lot of women because women will think “what more can I do to be accommodating?” The answer is there is nothing more that they can do. Men have an urge to sneak around. Men have an urge to be selfish in some way. Inevitably men will start meeting the women without his wife present. Men will start seeing the women casually or otherwise without telling his wife. And let’s not forget, if a man has anattraction to another man, that is something he is very unlikely to share it with his wife. And even if he does share his desire for same-sex relations, the genuine rules apply. He will inevitably start to see the other man without her present.

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Published by Respectably Witty Harvard X-Hooker Advisor

Caroleena, ivy league educated X-Hooker in Honolulu, respectfully presents social commentary/wisdom based on experiences with humor for everyday people

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