- First blog post
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- First Blog post: “All Men are not Gay, but I like watching two men”
This is the 2021 reposting of the first post. I was really on track with the singleness of purpose for the subject matter. I began to stray from the tight focus. Look at the first effort to discuss experience with street life in Honolulu Begin: November 16, 2017 That is what another working girl said […]
- “All Men are not Gay, but I like watching two men”
November 16, 2017 That is what another working girl said to me a couple of years ago. I would have wanted to be friends with her but when she heard people call me smart and pretty she thought her business would suffer if I was around. She was always ready to undermine my hopes. I […]
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I get a call at 5:30 a.m. by someone who saw my number on the site that allows providers to post ads free. He wants to see me a short drive away in Waikiki. I have to work out bc a taut body is my best feature. So of course I am late but only by 10 minutes which is enough to have the acquaintance who served as my cab driver fuming. It’s funny to rush somewhere then wait then find out you received directions to wrong hotel then walk up 1.5 blocks then wait then appointment time and hence compensation cut in half. Typical time. Glad to ultimately make it worth my while. But I was definitely glad to take the bus and use my bus pass rather than need a cab!
- Of course he was looking at her!
Women do you think your relationship is in trouble because he looks at other women? Nothing could be further from the truth. After years of encounters with many men I have enough experience to qualify myself as an expert in human sexual relations. Take it from me, it is natural for men to look at […]
- Unlikely Relationships are Likely
Yes, association with escorts can protect committed relationships by satisfying the male need for sex with new people. If a man is going to have sex with a non-profesional woman a certain amount of time must be invested to convince a woman that the man likes her on some level. A man does not need […]
- Love Between a Pro and Her Client?
Many obstacles hinder the formation of relationships. Society imposes restrictions against the mixing of individuals from different castes, for example, avoiding politician would be unlikely to publicly commit to someone who was a known drug addict and who presently engaged in drug using. Drug addiction is stigmatized. On an interpersonal level, people express disapproval. Perhaps […]
- What Is Beauty? 12/21/17
I had back to back appointments one busy night there was a client who took one look at me and said, “Wow…You’re beautiful. I just want to look at you,” which is what he did from a chair six feet away for an uncomfortable hour. Ninety minutes later I met a client who took one […]
- Even Me
You’re kidding!” exclaimed the client after I told him the name of my alma mater. I had gone to one of the most famous colleges in the world. There was no avoiding the inevitable next question: why are you doing this? No I did not begin or end my academic career with a plan to […]
- Legal Status Diversity 12/23/17
LegalStatusDiversity When I was growing up I did not like the word diversity, or, more specifically I did not like hearing that diversity was something an institution should seek. I thought it was code for affirmative action in its worst form–admission standards would be lowered to allow people who looked like me to be admitted […]
- You Might Need a Wet Nurse 12/26/2017
HOW I WOULD UTILIZE A PRO TO PLEASE MY SPOUSE 12/26/17 When I was a young woman I was married to a man over twenty years my senior. He believed his elder status made it appropriate and even necessary to dismiss my immature wishes. I also viewed him as the leader in our relationship as […]
- You Might Need a Wet Nurse, For Your Hubby 12/26/2017
What can she do to avoid nursing her husband? Hire out!
- Helpless Rage
I guess not. Other than the risk of losing freedom and enduring bodily harm, the biggest detraction from a certain line of work is being looked down on. No one feels they need to be polite or honest. They just don’t show up. That’s why you can break your word and not feel any guilt […]
I promise I can shock you The weirdest thing a client ever asked of an escort always shocks people. No one believes in the power to surprise the world weary reader. Yet even the most jaded or the most creative never predict the revelation. There was a client who appreciated the gifts possessed by the […]
- Do Women Like Each Other?
Can women rise above their traditionally competitive ways to cooperate in a high risk profession like escorting. The answer appears to be a resounding..NO.
- Not Everyone Appreciated a Nerdy Hooker
The Expert Escort, also known as Honolulugirl, was a talkative person. She was also a gifted storyteller and joke teller, if one appreciated a dry sarcastic wit. No one was more surprised than HG by her inability to effectively talk dirty. Saying the words embarrassed her to no end even though she could do the […]
- The Purpose of expertescort.org
What is my purpose? Where do I see the expertescort.org site? My purpose is to define the sexual norm to simply “consenting adults” whiie creating a front to atteact more clients to my apartment at Kalakaua Housing #1012. I Personally the same species” but that’s me! I would get rid of the words “instead of”: […]
- Sex costs – Cash, drugs or anything of value to me
Let’s assume that prostitution is legal and no one need worry about publicly associating themselves with a crime. There are common misperceptions associated with prostitution that keep people from embracing their interest in sex workers. I have heard many men say, “I don’t have to pay for sex.” These men assume that men who pay […]
- Confidentiality for site participants
I want to create a cyberspace that people can find commonality with others. My goal is for people to relate to ideas and attitudes not actual people even though it’s from real events Confidentiality is sacred to me but I reserve the right to use your image or video from the hidden camera in my […]
- Pretty Girl
More Than Money, 01/26/2018 One provider took a great deal of pleasure in looking pretty. She derived even more pleasure from the acknowledgement of her beauty. She loved sauntering down the sidewalk and catching male drivers doing a double take, eyes wide and interested, when they saw her. She loved when cars screeched to a […]
Many people have asked for experiences with hidden cameras. To fully explain the various uses of hidden cameras I will begin with a brief discussion of the vast topic of random people engaging in sex play. Based on my observations (my observations are the info source for all of these posts) people who know each […]
- PRETTY FOR FREE
February 06, 2018:. “PRETTY FOR FREE” In the beginning of this century there was a part of urban Honolulu that was a virtual open air 24 hour sex market. In “Town” sex workers were women and men dressed like women (colloquially known as “mahus”) who were addicted to crack, crystal methamphetamine (ice), heroin (boy), alcohol, […]
- Real Fantasies
FANTASIES STAY IMAGINARY 2/9/18 I was proud to be an open minded provider who applied the intimate lessons to personal life. I had learned that men constantly thought of sex and wanted to have sex with just about anyone. I wanted to match my mindset to what I had learned about the sexual appetite of […]
- REAL PIX? YOU’RE SERIOUS?
Providers want clients to like what they see and choose what they like. Yet there is a heavy social stigma associated with prostitution that is impossible to erase. Please understand the de facto rules providers must follow in order to post pictures and live in society.
- Generation Gap
GENERATION GAP 02/25/18 You know you’re a mature provider when your dates call you “Lady” as a form of address. “”What do you think of this, Lady?” You notice they automatically, probably subconsciously look to you for approval and they seem to believe you have a wide base of Knowledge for comparison purposes. “Am I […]
- Are You a Boy or a Girl?
“Are you a boy or a girl?” The first time a man pulled over to the curb and asked me this question in Downtown Honolulu I was more than a little offended. Was he trying to say I was ugly? I angrily asserted that I was a woman, just maybe a little tired from “runnin’ […]
- HOW GAY RELATED IS HIV?
HOW GAY RELATED IS HIV? As a responsible adult I have always taken HIV tests every six months, regardless of my perception of personal risk. I have always feared AIDS, well maybe not in the early days when AIDS had nothing whatsoever to do with me, or so I was told. As a precocious child […]
- Educated Escort
Educated Escort? Yes, that’s what I became. No one expects someone with my skin color who works in my profession to begin an encounter discussing the three main ideas of The Art of War, by Lao Tzu. Sure I it is pompous to discuss ancient Chinese philosophy. Nevertheless, I like to introduce myself by going […]
- Introducing The Scholar to Crack
Introducing The Scholar to Crack I was a 23 year old resident of Manhattan at the end of the 20th century. About halfway through my second year of teaching middle school & second year of grad school I met these people at a bar with a would-be boyfriend who was totally trying to ditch me […]
- What “bbc” Meant in My Career
The ideal sex partner. Women often describe this imaginary person in terms of personality traits as they imagine the doting partner. Men picture the person’s appearance. I have not said anything earth shattering and original so why are you reading the words of an author (moi) who offers well worn notions? Because I am sure […]
- How do lesbians lose virginity?
It just occurred to me that in a sense I really am a virgin. After all, I have never been with a woman. Does anyone knows what lesbians consider losing their virginity. When can it be said that one has engaged in lesbian sex–officially? Always the standard for sex has been penetration but with lesbians […]
- Sex Industry Historic Event
Want an insiders view into the life of s “provider” or escort or prostitute–pick your term. I will follow this message with a copy of s historic document. I am in communication with providers. Yes, it is possible to go to certain areas of Homolulu and catch a man’s eye as he slowly drives. With […]
- Sex NOT for sale
- How’s business after the disappearance of prostitution advertising sites?
How is business now that changes in federal lawgiver resulted in the removal of advertising sites for providers? I asked around. One provider was happy you discover that her business volume was unaffected. Clients could no longer find new people to satisfy the peer pressure that drove guys you be the first to find the […]
- PURPOSE OF SITE
Clients confided in the Ivy League educated hooker–me. Why? I was smart enough to understand anything they shared. Equally important, my status as social outcast meant even if I told their secrets few would listen to me. Of those who listen, few of that small number would believe me. Almost no one would care […]
- What happened to websites that posted provider reviews after internet sex trafficking law
View how one site administrator dealt with the April 2018 law against internet sex trafficking. The site was formerly: http://www.usasexguide.info
- Who Wants to Hear From a Whore?
A hooker’s words might be of great interest to many. Or so I hope.
Will anyone want to know about an ivy league educated ex-streetwalker? Absolutely!
- Harvard Hooker
Harvard Hooker, July 8, 2018 Harvard Hooker I did not expect to become the lowest person in everyone’s opinion. Sure, I knew that people who lived conventional lefeztyles would certainly look askance at my way of life. But I did not expect people who lived beyond the pale of normal society to look down at […]
- Virginity For Sale
Virginity For Sale, July, 2018 Yesterday I saw a story on a news/entertainment programming about a 23 year old woman preparing to auction her virginity to the highest bidder later in 2018. Preliminary bids top a million dollars. There’s so much to say on this subject I will divide comments into multiple blogs I have […]
- Hooker with a Degree in One Hand and a Rap Sheet in the Other
Hooker with a Degree in One Hand and a Rap Sheet in the Other July 14, 2018 I have a morbid sense of humor. I find amusement in things that others might find depressing, upsetting, mean…you get the picture. This trait is called “gallows humor.” Yes, I can laugh at the fact that somehow my […]
- AS THE EXPERT ESCORT I KNOW A THING OR TWO
- Lessons from a Threesome, July 28, 2018
Caroleena was a working girl who was very good at separating her mind from her body. She could engage in physical activities with a client without the physical sensations that ordinarily accompany sex. It was easier not to feel anything to keep her soul safe. Caroleena worried that if she met someone she wanted to […]
- Adult Services Provider Reviews By Hobbyists-how it feels when hobbyists have split on screen personalities.
Whenever I go to an adult site I know features reviews about my performance as an adult services provider my heart is in my mouth. I’m totally nervous, almost scared. I didn’t think I would feel this way. I told myself I spend time with these people for the money. I do my best to […]
- How critiques on an adult web site are not just commenting, they are also creating (s)experience
I was yexti g the hobbyist I knew as Little Blue. I had met a very nice guy, Blue Neck, and several other upfront senior members who gave fair reviews. 321Bloke. NandaGoodHand. FlowerSniffer. DR-Rico. Not everyone wanted to hide their screen name from the provider, although some guys said membership in the American Sex Tales […]
- Remember the Blog I Wrote About Client who liked to watch me take IQ tests? Here’s a Great Example of How “Sexy” Varies
This viral math question has two solutions. There are two correct answers. Tomasina DiMatteo/Facebook Spotted on The Daily Mail, the question was originally created by Go Tumble and shared on Wikr before taking off on Facebook and going viral. There are two correct ways to solve it. The first way to find the solution is to add the equation, then […]
- People say the strangest things about hookers. Here’s an example.
Recently, I was reading a popular adult services web site which posts reviews about providers. The reviews are supposed to be from clients and I think they usually are. Of course you never know if a good review is from someone who really likes a girl he has never even met but wants to […]
- I had a pimp but I did not know it
In 2002 I was addicted to crack cocaine and turned to hooking on the streets of downtown Honolulu to support my habit. I was not one of the expensive streetwalkers who strolled Kuhio Avenue in Waikiki wearing platform shoes with the fake fish appearing to swim in glass heels. These women were usually young, attractive […]