“You still look good,” is not meant in a good way

I say this without any hyperbole or exaggeration. Every single compliment I get makes reference to my age. They might say you still look good. Or they might say no wonder you still look good. Or so that’s why you still look good. Or how old are you, 40 or 50 or what? Doesn’t matter cuz you still look good.

Hawaii Street Life-a Trusted Insider Tells All

You can always call a woman beautiful

“But I don’t know how to say it!” Complained a guy who I scolded after he told me I looked good for my age. I find myself objecting to the addition “for your age ” about once a month. Can’t a woman just be beautiful? Why do people feel the need to remind themselves that a woman’s not truly good looking after she’s older than whatever age they seem as older?

Women I know are worse than guys

When I see women who knew me when I was younger they look at me without smiling. After they do a full body visual scan they say, in an accusatory tone, “you still look good.” I don’t know if they mean to reveal their displeasure. I don’t mind if they resent me. It’s not like they were friends on the street. We were rivals. My…

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