Sex Riddle: When it comes to prostitution no one wants people to think THIS, but everyone wants people to think THAT…??

Not that you would be a hooker, but you certainly could be a hooker–find out why this reasoning makes sense.

Sex Riddle: When it comes to prostitution, no one wants people to think THIS, but everyone wants people to think THAT…??

What do people absolutely want and absolutely not want people to think about them and prostitution? You’ll be amazed!

It takes A LOT to convince me that police used excessive force. I would support the appropriate use of police force during the current protests on the Big Island of Hawaii

https://apnews.com/61e1841d62704548b1be4bf8e5efb36d The Use of Police Force Check out the above link and you will find a story about the protests on another island, the Big Island. Sacred Untouchable Site or Development Site? Not My Issue Some native Hawaiian advocates say a state of the art telescope should not be built on sacred ground. I haveContinue reading “It takes A LOT to convince me that police used excessive force. I would support the appropriate use of police force during the current protests on the Big Island of Hawaii”

From the Cleavage Diaries: A Football Hero? We have heard that phrase for years but I’ve never heard this question–

Why are the words “football” and “hero” paired? Why not fireman and hero or police officer and hero, or advocate and hero? There must be some sort of anniversary with the Simpson case because it is back in the news. For the first time I am questioning an assumption I never questioned before. How elseContinue reading “From the Cleavage Diaries: A Football Hero? We have heard that phrase for years but I’ve never heard this question–”

https://youtu.be/RQwwQB1QKzc, Link to Shocking Live View on YouTube of Honolulu’s Street Sex Capital in 2005

This link to a YouTube video shows the location of the Capital of secret street sex in Honolulu. You won’t believe what you see!

Sex Question–Find out the answer to one question you didn’t know you didn’t know how to answer

Why? This is a sex question you didn’t know you had, but you do so get the answer and satisfy yourself

Sexual Identity is, in a way, task based. We make a public, permanent declaration of how we will do that activity prior to ever doing it.

Why is sexual Identity permanent? If a middle school age fkid says “I’m an astrophysicist. I have known it since I was 3. I was born this way and will always be this way,” we would smile indulgently, perhaps be supportive, maybe try to talk sense into him. We would not expect commitment. Test ifContinue reading “Sexual Identity is, in a way, task based. We make a public, permanent declaration of how we will do that activity prior to ever doing it.”

I’ve received no positive suggestions

I’m grateful for the honesty. No one offered me false hope. It’s not the void that devastates, it’s the dream deferred, the false hope. There’s the law of attraction but there’s also the law of harsh reality and that’s the one that applies to me. I said I wouldn’t lie to you and I won’t.Continue reading “I’ve received no positive suggestions”

There’s a lot of pressure to be positive. Is it taboo to admit I’m discouraged and haven’t come out on the other side yet

There’s so much we are supposed to do every day. Exercise. Meditate. Pray. Slowly eat small portions of mostly vegetable meals off of blue plates. Do puzzles to stay mentally sharp. Develop your spirituality. Apologize. Forgive. Do a daily moral inventory. And that’s before breakfast. I know all of this from the email alerts aboutContinue reading “There’s a lot of pressure to be positive. Is it taboo to admit I’m discouraged and haven’t come out on the other side yet”

Final Expense Life Insurance Commercial Capitalizes on the Human Tendency to Avoid the Uncomfortable so Blatantly it is Amusing

There is a commercial that exploits the human tendency to lie to ourselves and not deal with what is coming by not thinking about things

A Surprising Fact an X-Hooker Knows That Non-Pro Women Don’t Know–But Should

Behind every great man there is a great woman playing mommy to him and he knows he can’t make it without her but he cannot overcome his nature that causes him to desire meaningless sex with others. Oh well

Does anyone else feel nauseated after working for long at a computer or a text book?

I know this feeling is not just related to the computer, because I remember feeling this way in high school when I scrawled pages of reports in my awful handwriting on yellow lined paper. I worked until I was in a cold sweat and had to lie down for a little while. Like I willContinue reading “Does anyone else feel nauseated after working for long at a computer or a text book?”

I Would Never Expect An Intellectual to Look Like This True and Recent Picture of the Busty Brown Skinned Beauty who Authors This Blog

Originally posted on Harvard X-Hookr in Hawaii in Sex, Drugs, Rock ‘n Roll:
Just showing my picture with my writing sends a message. The writing is good, if I do say so myself. I will admit that I would not expect a person who looks like this woman to have written my words, but she…

I Would Never Expect An Intellectual to Look Like This True and Recent Picture of the Busty Brown Skinned Beauty who Authors This Blog

This picture paired with the words goes a long way to challenging prejudices like mine, because I know I would never have expected this woman to write these words, but the fact that I am this woman and I know I did the writing challenges my own notions about what is true. Prejudices against certain people can develop even if we are part of that group. The good news is we can challenge prejudices against ourselves by surpassing our own low expectations