This picture paired with the words goes a long way to challenging prejudices like mine, because I know I would never have expected this woman to write these words, but the fact that I am this woman and I know I did the writing challenges my own notions about what is true. Prejudices against certain people can develop even if we are part of that group. The good news is we can challenge prejudices against ourselves by surpassing our own low expectations
The Best Time to Look Honest is When You Are Lying
In Honolulu chances are better than good that we are all connected to each other through shared acquaintances, or friends of friends. There’s an effort to clean out some of the corruption in a local government that is heavily reliant on who you know and who you are related to. It looks like the formerContinue reading “None of my associates are rooting for my success, so they don’t read my blog, and I feel pretty free to write about them while maintaining their anonymity bc they’ll never know. Wait til you hear about the famous criminals I kinda know–”
Yes, I am a Scorpio. Based on everything I think I know about the zodiac this sign is common among the people who are extreme: very sensual, very loyal, very intelligent, very revengeful. That sounds about right to me, about me. I am going to formulate a list of predictions that are short, sweet, andContinue reading “This Scorpio is going to put the Law of Attraction in Action on Day 1 of My Birthday Month with Predictions That will be reality One Year From Today”
Monday, November 19, 2018I have a morbid sense of humor. I find amusement in things that others might find depressing, upsetting, even mean…I readily make myself the brunt of a joke if it makes me laugh. This practice is called “gallows humor.” I always understood gallows humor to be the jokes people made between themselvesContinue reading “From Harvard to Homeless to Homey to Hooker”
Am I “regular person crazy,” which means being dysfunctional in the usual ways–or is my jealousy unusual?
How do you go from spending time to time well spent–by sharing the memories that create your life with people who can give you a new point of view and hence a new life.
THE DREAM OF A BIG AND QUICK PAYDAY Women at the Women’s Community Correctional Center in Kailua, Hawaii, and the Oahu Community Correctional Center, in Honolulu, Hawaii saw women who went before them and did what people always say is wise. They tried to learn from history and take lessons from those who came beforeContinue reading “Part III: I Know How To Beat A Polygraph From My Time in Prison Where the Guards Were More Criminal Than Their Charges”
I have held some truths to be self evident that were simply not true and I wonder how wrong I am right now without even knowing it.
I thought physical aging was the worst part of getting old and believe me it is no picnic to go from beautiful to very attractive, bu the worst part of aging is the inevitable loss of everybody. I had no idea.
Today, people do not officially end relationships with a final conversation that is supposed to give closure, but just stop calling and texting with or without a cursory comment about being busy. It is called “ghosting.” I was just “ghosted” in spite of my hope in friendship but I am glad I know the trend and didn’t keep trying.
people really want to feel that their cruelty makes them one of the good guys.
Give a man a fish, you feed him for a day, teach him to fish, you feed him for life. Give a man a drug, you hurt him for a day, teach him to self destruct, you destroy him for life.
Originally posted on Sexy, Funny Video/Verse about forbidden Hawaii :
SexQuestion: What is a sure sign that a guy is not being honest when he says her pleasure is his most important priority?SexAnswer: When a guy does not ask her what she wants, does not solicit feedback during the encounter, or listen to her afterwards,…
How can you tell if he means it when he says your pleasure is his highest priority?
The terms “baby mama” and “baby daddy” aren’t just bad grammatically but show a distressing acceptance of impermanent sexual unions that produce children.