There is one thing about sexual Safety every woman needs to know and here it is so take notes: If you are the only woman among a group of guys who are drinking alcohol GET OUT NOW! Whenever I hear stories about a young woman hanging out with the football team, or at a fraternityContinue reading “Sexual Safety for High School + College Women”
You can’t rape the willing
Shock your rapist into yielding control to you
Rapists Can’t Rape the Willing BC the Willing Are Not Arousing
“She was asking for it” is a way to blame the victim but if you think about it women can draw strength from the idea that ultimately women are responsible. Strength that may very well be necessary.
Cleavage interests men. The suggestion of a possibility of cleavage is enough to turn a man’s head. I think we women need to be realistic about what we can expect from men. No, a woman is never asking to be raped. Revealing clothes does not guarantee a consent to sex or even imply consent is possible.Continue reading “YouTube Video: Yes, women are asking for it. Find out what “it” is in this post.”
Rape Victims Everywhere Remember my felony charge I have always considered ridiculous–the possession of $10 of an opiate? I ended up doing months on end spread out over several years during the first years of this century. When I went to The Women’s Community Correctional Center, the prison for women in Hawaii, I discovered thatContinue reading “The Rapists Must Be Everywhere–But Where Are They?”
I ADMIT THAT I VERY OFTEN HAVE THE WRONG IDEAS Every time I start to tell you about some truth I learned, about how foolish I used to be, I pause and wonder if I will look back at today and shake my head at my stupidity. I just want to let you know IContinue reading “Two Misconceptions–one about men who rape, the other about men who hire hookers”