Men who rape don’t do it bc they “have to,” and they will make sure to turn a yes into a no, bc the only thing they “have to” get is the no

Rapists Can’t Rape the Willing BC the Willing Are Not Arousing

Men Should Be Hugely Offended by the term “She was asking for it,” Not Embracing the Idea that they are Cavemen

“She was asking for it” is a way to blame the victim but if you think about it women can draw strength from the idea that ultimately women are responsible. Strength that may very well be necessary.

YouTube Video: Yes, women are asking for it. Find out what “it” is in this post.

Cleavage interests men. The suggestion of a possibility of cleavage is enough to turn a man’s head. I think we women need to be realistic about what we can expect from men. No, a woman is never asking to be raped. Revealing clothes does not guarantee a consent to sex or even imply consent is possible.Continue reading “YouTube Video: Yes, women are asking for it. Find out what “it” is in this post.”

The Rapists Must Be Everywhere–But Where Are They?

Rape Victims Everywhere Remember my felony charge I have always considered ridiculous–the possession of $10 of an opiate? I ended up doing months on end spread out over several years during the first years of this century. When I went to The Women’s Community Correctional Center, the prison for women in Hawaii, I discovered thatContinue reading “The Rapists Must Be Everywhere–But Where Are They?”

Two Misconceptions–one about men who rape, the other about men who hire hookers

I ADMIT THAT I VERY OFTEN HAVE THE WRONG IDEAS Every time I start to tell you about some truth I learned, about how foolish I used to be, I pause and wonder if I will look back at today and shake my head at my stupidity. I just want to let you know IContinue reading “Two Misconceptions–one about men who rape, the other about men who hire hookers”